tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5750499633451363990.post5951113961747345966..comments2022-11-11T03:11:40.868-08:00Comments on Good Egg Hatched: Like It Never HappenedGood Egg Hatchedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06329661201337433257noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5750499633451363990.post-14612176842643657722015-02-23T08:54:52.415-08:002015-02-23T08:54:52.415-08:00Ugh. I am quite confident our in-laws are related...Ugh. I am quite confident our in-laws are related. justonemorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5750499633451363990.post-40671774757733084592014-12-19T13:36:25.590-08:002014-12-19T13:36:25.590-08:00I saw your blog linked from another IF blog and ju...I saw your blog linked from another IF blog and just wanted to lend support.<br /><br />I lost a child two years ago at 24 weeks due to unexplained PProm. There was no explanation. He was perfect and then he was just. Gone. We had also struggled with secondary infertility before conceiving him (and still do). My relatives, particularly my in laws, behaved exactly in that unfathomable manner. It took my breath away how uncaring and just completely out of touch they seemed---as if maybe I'd had a hang nail. Even my own sister (though much better than the in laws) would point out cute babies not long after it happened and try to compare her very early miscarriage as if it were the same thing. It was as if everyone (aside from my husband) was just impatiently glancing at their watches and waiting for me to "feel better" and get on with it already. But I am a different person now and my precious child is gone. I think many people are incapable of understanding it as a death in the family rather than simply a second trimester loss. And it's maddening. <br /><br /> My approach now is to give people in my everyday life as little information as possible about our journey. I've tried to cope with tactless remarks by zoning out and repeating "they know not what they do" in my head. I will not say I know just how you feel, because everyone's journey is so different and our lost children unique. I will only say that I know the well of despair and acute anguish (made worse by insensitivity) and just wanted to say I am so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5750499633451363990.post-59398813455973405022014-12-16T03:55:55.241-08:002014-12-16T03:55:55.241-08:00I am so sorry. So sorry. For all of it and especia...I am so sorry. So sorry. For all of it and especially for the idiot relatives, especially at this time of year.<br /><br />Your last line is so very true and so very sad.<br />xoxoTuriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11694077473805539161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5750499633451363990.post-54713560914727763782014-12-15T10:07:04.040-08:002014-12-15T10:07:04.040-08:00Your last line is so sad and beautiful and true.
...Your last line is so sad and beautiful and true.<br /><br />I'm sorry about the ignorant relatives. As if we weren't hurting enough. Hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com